Ok, it’s official. God is fucking with me. And I don’t like it.
Explain to me how in ALL the places to work in Orlando, I start working at a company where the sister of my little buddy Caleb, Tina’s niece is working at the same place, 20 feet from me. I mean really people. Seriously? What did I ever do to deserve this. Now, I have even less of a choice to think about the kids, and that damn girl. I don’t think I’ll be able to not make a comment about the new guy, or resist asking about Caleb and wanting to see him.
I’m fucking sending my resume back out.
Don’t mean ANY offense by this – but saw this and immediately thought of you…
http://www.slate.com/id/2270845/
Q. Bad Break-Up: A friend is absolutely devastated by the end of her three-year relationship. He met somebody else and moved on. We (her friends) understand her pain and feelings of confusion, loss, and anger. We each, and as a group, try to be supportive and helpful. But it’s been six months! As one of our group asked, “Is this break-up going to last as long as the relationship?” We’re pretty much tired of talking about the ex, what might have been, how it happened, etc. It’s just tears and recriminations with no seeming effort on her part to, well, get over it. This may seem a selfish question, but how do we get over it? Or is it our tolerance and friendship that are lacking? This break-up has become an all-consuming topic within our group. And it’s not pretty.
A: You need an intervention for your friend. The next time all of you are together and she starts in on, “I don’t understand, sure we had some problems, but overall we were really happy and …” all of you—kindly, please!—should explain you’re concerned about her. Tell her break-ups are terribly painful, but they’re also terribly common. He’s with someone else now, and it’s irretrievably over. Explain that all of you have realized allowing her to go ’round and ’round about what went wrong is not helping her—just the opposite. So as a group of friends you are going cold turkey on talking about the break-up. However, you feel she’s gotten stuck emotionally, and she needs to sort this out with a professional who can help her get back to being a happy, independent person, who, like almost everyone else, once had her heart broken.
No offense taken. ive pretty much given up on getting”over” it. I JUST dont talk about as much. keep my sorrow inside. maybe I will pop one day and end up on foxnews or jump out a plane. dont know and really dont care but I do hate these “coincedidential” remainders I get everything months. maybe I will list them here onede in order so show the , as one friend called it, the creepiness of how often they happen. or maybe its the “secret” bringing it toward me since she never really leaves my mind. all I can hope is that the” breakups” are common is real and she gets a karma punch in the face.
Coincedental reminders are only coincedental reminders if you make them that way. You need to stop letting this woman, who by all accounts is not that extraordinary and the relationship itself, especially in the last months was not that extraordinary, consume your life.